*Currently listening to Only Girl in the world by RihRih*
Growing up we hear people say this and that about being a female. How you should act, what you should do, how you should react, when you should speak, when not to speak, what kind of professional career to pursue and what to aspire to.
Most believe the highest level of achievement for a female is marriage and kids they also believe a girl’s place is beside a man serving and bearing children.
Some others believe in the supremacy of the feminine race, they believe females should do more, be more, know their worths and don’t let anyone bullshit them. Although I’m a fan of that I believe everything in life has to do with your choices and these choices should be based on facts of who you are as an individual.
I believe a girl just like anyone should be gifted the opportunity of choosing what kind of life she wants and what paths to pursue based on who she is and what she enjoys doing.
You may say “what does she know I am older so I know better”. Well, no one is disputing your knowledge. You may be older and smarter and more experienced but you will never know someone better than they know themselves.So Instead of making assumptions ask her what she wants because you do not always know what’s best.
More often than not a girl is just trying to find her way in this world and in the wise words of Big Sean “everything ain’t for everybody”.
Something to think about while we go into the new week don’t forget to drop your comments and like.
Till next time I remain me💕